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                Why men are more likely to catch this
                  15th May 2009 
				• Why men take more sick days than women 
                  
                 • How to reprogramme your mind to reduce 
                  pain and even lose weight 
                  
                 • Try this tasty homemade cough syrup 
                  
                  
                 Picture the scene... 
                  
                 A woman walks into the bathroom and finds her husband 
                 slumped over the sink. His shoulders shudder with upset 
                 and fear. 
                  
                 'What's wrong?' cries the woman, panicked. 
                  
                 The man turns to his wife, a tiny trickle of snot running 
                 from his nose, his eyes red and blotchy. 
                  
                 'I've got a cold!' he cries. 'CALL 999.' 
                  
                 And with that he collapses on the floor. 
                  
                 What is it about some men that the slightest hint of a cold 
                 causes almost immediate physical shutdown? Why do 
                 colds magically turn into 'flu' when they hit a man's 
                 immune system? Why do minor bugs seem to cause 
                 some of us such pain and misery? 
                  
                 Now, at this point you may be thinking, 'What on earth, 
                 Ray? I'm a man and I've never been off work with illness 
                 a SINGLE DAY in my life. I'm as strong as an ox I'll have 
                 you know. I've got a cold and yet I'm off to wrestle a bull 
                 and slap a lion.' 
                  
                 In which case, fair enough. I doff my cap to you, Sir. 
                  
                 But if you're one of those men who get feel like the world 
                 is ending when you get a cold, or you're a lady who 
                 LIVES with one of those men, please read on... 
                  
                 You may find some vindication in today's Good Life 
                 Letter. 
                  
                 'MAN FLU IS NOT A MYTH!' 
                  
                 ...So claimed The Daily Mail on Wednesday this week. 
                  
                 Researchers from McGill University in Montreal have 
                 found a reason why so many men get struck down at the 
                 first sign of the sniffles. (INTERESTING FACTOID OF 
                 THE DAY: Thirty percent of men take sick days, 
                 compared with 22% of women). 
                  
                 The researchers say it's all down to the female sex 
                 hormone oestrogen. Apparently this boosts women's 
                 immune systems against the invading bacterial hordes. 
                 Which means colds and flu don't take hold as quickly or 
                 as powerfully as they do in men. 
                  
                 So men really COULD be hit harder by bugs! 
                  
                 This discovery could lead to something very strange in 
                 the future... older men could be injected with female 
                 hormones to protect them against flu. 
                  
                 In my view, as soon as you start offering men this option, 
                 you'll get them saying. 
                  
                 'Oh, female hormones? Really? Actually, I'm feeling better... 
                 honestly, it's just a cold... Yes, I'll be fine... In fact, I'm off 
                 to work. BYE!' 
                  
                 But before you go thinking that this puts an end to the 
                 great Men vs. Woman Flu Debate, hold your horses. This 
                 experiment has been carried on only on mice so far. And 
                 it's far from conclusive.
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                Why pain is all in our minds 
                  
                 Other experts claim that the reason women feel less pain 
                 from illness is simply a case of MIND OVER MATTER! 
                  
                 (No, they don't mean that 'women don't mind, and men 
                 don't matter') 
                  
                 Scientists from Stanford University in California say pain 
                 'can be blocked by telling yourself it does not exist.' I'm 
                 not sure why women are better than this, the article 
                 doesn't say. I presume for the same reason that women 
                 can cope with events like childbirth whereas men would 
                 run a mile screaming like children. 
                  
                 These experts say that visualisation technique can 
                 reduce the discomfort of chronic pain by two-thirds. And I 
                 agree that this is something that works... 
                  
                 How to re-programme your mind 
                  
                 Visualisation techniques are something I've covered 
                 before in these letters. 
                  
                 If you're interested there are still copies left of a course I 
                 recommended last year. It reveals how to re-programme 
                 your mind using something called 'Neuropsychology'. 
                  
                 In this particular course, it's not about controlling pain as 
                 such, but about re-training your mind to feel less hungry, 
                 less addicted and reliant on food. But the principles apply 
                 to anything really. Take a look at this: 
                  
                 Slim While You Sleep 
                  
                 Mainstream media is finally catching up with this idea 
                  
                 If you remember, I recommended this course in Summer 
                 last year, saying that  
                 Slim While You Sleep 
                  was a new 
                 and alternative way to deal with dieting. Instead of crash 
                 diets and constant yo-yoing, you instead tackle the real 
                 reasons WHY you eat. 
                  
                 Since then, the mainstream media have caught up on the 
                 idea. Turning again to The Mail, a few weeks ago they 
                 published an article how 'The devil in our mind dooms 
                 us to diet failure'. 
                  
                 Neuroscientist Colin Camerer told the paper: 
                  
                 'After centuries of debate in social sciences we are finally 
                 making big strides in understanding self-control from 
                 watching the brain resist temptation directly.' 
                  
                 So trying some visualisation and coping strategies could 
                 be worth a go. However, I have to remind you that I only 
                 have a few copies of Slim While You Sleep left in stock 
                 right now. If you want a copy, order at Slim While You Sleep 
                 as soon as you can. 
                  
                 And if you are struggling with a summer cough right now, 
                 then here's a tasty recipe for you to try. | 
               
              
                Make your own cherry cough syrup 
                  
                 I've been avidly reading James Wong's Grow Your Own 
                 Drugs, (Published by Collins, 2009, available in most 
                 book shops and on Amazon.co.uk). This book 
                 accompanies the recent BBC television series of the 
                 same name, which I raved about a few months ago. 
                  
                 On page 112 he has a tasty little homemade cough syrup 
                 that uses my old favourite, honey. 
                  
                 The idea of the honey in this case is simply to soothe, 
                 which means it shouldn't matter that this is a method 
                 where you heat the honey. 
                  
                 You take 500g of cherries with the stones in. You slice a 
                 lemon, and take 250ml of homey. Simmer it all for half an 
                 hour, then strain and cool. Pour the mixture into a 
                 sterilized bottle and take a couple of tablespoons when 
                 your cough feels bad. 
                  
                 Mr Wong's book is well worth checking out. And today 
                 the postman delivered another similar tome called Grow 
                 Your Own Pharmacy by Linda Gray. 
                  
                 I'll deliver my verdict on this latest book once I've done 
                 my chores, deal with the dog, locked the study door, put 
                 my feet up and had a darned good read. 
                  
                 (This process is MUCH harder than it sounds.) | 
               
               
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